When Dying Well Meets Living On

Creative Statement

When Dying Well Meets Living On is a realist comedy. Of its three main characters, one has given up on striving, one is eager to die, and one needs to escape a harmful family. All three have been toyed with by fate, yet an absurd situation brings them together, and each finds a sense of belonging in the others. With that sense of belonging they are no longer alone; they gain a tie and a little warmth, and with it the courage to keep living. Many people now talk about "lying flat". In the post-pandemic period and an economic downturn, many are exhausted and see little hope for the future, and relentless pep talk and motivational messages tend to provoke resentment. We want to tell a story that is somewhat bitter but also warm, to laugh and cry with the audience, and to watch the characters slowly become braver in each other's company, so that viewers may find some healing of their own.

Synopsis

Old Yang is a paraplegic old man who has long wanted to end his life, but he has never managed it because his conscientious young caregiver, Da Fangzi, keeps a close watch on him. Then he meets Zhao Ma, one of the "Sanhe gods", young drifters who have given up on striving. Old Yang talks Zhao Ma into posing as his godson and helping him die, promising that Zhao Ma will inherit his entire estate. Old Yang expects it to be simple, but Zhao Ma proves far less reliable than he imagined: anything handed to Zhao Ma turns into a mess, and Da Fangzi keeps getting in the way. After several failed attempts, the more Old Yang puts himself through, the healthier he becomes. As the days pass, the three learn that each of them carries a painful past. Zhao Ma and Old Yang, a fake father and son, develop a real bond, and Zhao Ma and Da Fangzi grow fond of each other. The three form a kind of "family". Zhao Ma, already hesitant, can no longer bring himself to go through with it, and even starts helping Da Fangzi stop Old Yang. But it does not last. Zhao Ma discovers that Old Yang has been fooling him all along and that the will is worthless, while Da Fangzi learns that Zhao Ma has been helping Old Yang end his life and is deeply disappointed in him. The three go their separate ways. Only after parting do they realize how much they care about one another. To mend this broken "family" and to free Old Yang from what has been weighing on him, Zhao Ma has to pull himself together...

Genre:

Realist, Comedy

Director/Screenwriter:

Hou Guotao

Producer:

Hu Jing | Wang Zizhi

About the Director/Screenwriter

Hou Guotao: Born in 1989, of Bai ethnicity, born in Bijie, Guizhou, and raised in Jingzhou, Hubei. Studied at Wuhan University and Zhejiang University and holds a master's degree in industrial design. He began working on theatrical films in 2013 and has been involved in development, screenwriting, directing, editing, visual effects, and publicity and distribution. He began directing independently in 2016 and has directed 12 online films. Since 2020 he has focused on realist comedy. His work centers on ordinary people and social issues, using comedy to show the tragic side of his characters in stories rooted in everyday life, aiming for entertainment with human concern. He describes his goal as making "commercial films with warmth".

About the Producer

Hu Jing: Has worked with leading senior directors for more than ten years and has extensive experience in industrialized film production. Alongside developing and producing major projects, she works to discover and develop young directors. Credits include Mr. Six, The Eleventh Chapter and When Larry Met Mary; selected works: The Eight Hundred and The Cord of Life. Wang Zizhi: Co-producer and founder of Heibai Entertainment, with experience in publicity, marketing and promotion. Co-presenter and producer of The Thousand Faces of Dunjia 2 and Mini Agents; producer of The Void Focus.

Logline

A young man who has given up on life tries to help a paraplegic old man end his life, but their attempts keep failing because of a young caregiver, leading to a string of tragicomic episodes...